Parker,
My daughter always lands on her feet..I guess you also have to look at things from...do you have a boy or girl wanting to play..It does make a difference..We have background checks also but someone's morals are hard to check on and most don't get turned away from cheating in a soccer game.
I guess I'm just more forgiving than most..Good luck with whatever you decide...Just don't throw out the whole tray of biscuits because one or two got burnt..