yea i've been told to score only on crosses a few times. it used to be so bad in 2A that I heard stories of strikers dribbling the keep, stopping the ball on the line, and walking away. That's a rare occasion though. If you aren't willing to take a 20-0 beating, then don't field a team. obviously taking the starting line-up out is going to happen, but you can't tell a kid that gets to play in 20% of the games that they can't have a go at the goal.