I have been involved with ODP for the past few years as well, and the frustration is great in many aspects. I have very little knowledge of the girls side so I will make my comments on the boys side.
1- the best players are not participating. Why? because, although stated in many different views, there is an amount of politics involved. i.e. A boy selected to particpate only because his parent was an admin.
2- Cost... It cost a lot of money to participate in the events. SCYSA should figure out how to make it "free" for all, not just the few who can get scholarships.
3-tryouts... I have been to many, and as someone said before, you know who the players are. Why tryout if Billy will get picked without ever showing his face.
4-practices.... We are in SC, this is almost impossible to do with the players coming from all over the state. One week in Charleston, one week in Columbia. Practices are once a month (maybe a couple)for 4hrs. It does not provide for the best environment to become part of a team. Although individually you may be great it will not show you if the communication with your teammate is not there.
5- Coaches.... This is a revolving never ending door of coaches. There have been times when the coaches just don't show up, or worst do not go to ODP camp with the team that was assigned.
6-Clubs/teams... frankly some do not promote , encourage and in some cases discourage participation. Why? I do not know. But many times players only knew because I happened to mention it
In the recent past there have been small changes that seem to be placing the program in the right direction, but we still have a long way to go. I will continue to promote the program to my son because I believe that it will only make him better. However, I'll be honest, this past year was a losinng proposition