Where's the letter and associated "disgust" with the league for not having officials there?

It seems to me that you're focusing on the wrong thing. The league let you down and a coach at Lexington didn't accept having two NECSA fans who happen to be referees referee a game that means something to his team. Yet your "disgust" rests solely upon the coach acting in the best interest of his team. It doesn't make much sense to me.