>>[HappyDaddy] I'm not sure what the fuss is about.<<
I'm not sure what "fuss" you are referring to, but the most noteworthy thing that occurred was that CESA significantly won more finalists and championship slots than would have been predicted quantitatively and by most people qualitatively. It was a surprising result -- I would have expected fewer champions by one club and more champions by others. But more importantly, I thought that the fact that both CESA and CUFC had at least the expected number of finalists was good news for both clubs. I also thought that CUFC's position as a strong #2 in terms of competing at the highest level of competition was "fuss-worthy"; as I've noted, even taking into account Bridge's entrance of two teams into USSF Academy I thought that CUFC has clearly separated itself.
>>Most of the finals were as competitive as they could be. Four were decided by kicks from the spot (a horrible way to determine a winner - but an accepted part of the game). From what I witnessed, the games were hard and fairly fought. The kids had fun. The parents were nervous wrecks (especially the parents of goalkeepers) and several people have said it was the best day of soccer they've ever witnessed. What's not to love? I'm a CUFC guy. I root for our teams. I respect what CESA has accomplished and recognize it as the most "successful" club in the state.<<
I don't think anyone would debate the merits of the play. I do find the "scare quote" usage interesting with respect to "successful."
I actually witnessed a parent of one club shake their first at a group of parents from another club and state that CESA dominance was changing when their team scored the first goal against CESA. I understood the emotion -- but not necessarily the outward expression thereof. It was amusing to me when CESA eventually won the game -- but I also recognize that my detachment would have been much more difficult to achieve if I had a child playing in that game or I had been "rooting" for the other club.
>>We've done a great job since the merger and I think the "results" gap will continue to narrow.<<
Whether CUFC has done a great job since the merger really depends upon what the goals were and whether those goals have been achieved at the club level. I've been on here several times in the last week stating I think that CUFC has certainly made achievements at all levels of soccer -- I think that it's more impressive to look at the B and C level teams and what they did from first to second year -- but I would never presume to guess whether the club has done a "great job" without understanding the expectations/goals of the club versus the actual results.
In terms of the "results" gap (those scare quotes again!) -- certainly you would expect it given the number of teams participating in challenge, relative sizes of the clubs, and the like.
>>Ultimately though, it's important to keep in mind that this isn't a competition between clubs. The sole purpose of their existence is to create an environment where our kids can play soccer, improve as they can, and have fun.<<
This is one of those statements that seem at face value to be valid, but upon closer inspection is flawed. Certainly it's a competition between clubs. You recognize that with your posts about Bridge "luring" kids and your earlier questions regarding why CESA-Columbia even exists. This is a competition among clubs attempting to secure rights to attend and compete in the best tournaments, to compete in RIIIPL-East, and the like.
Moreover, I'm pleased that CUFC is getting stronger and the games are getting closer. I think it challenges CESA to increase its services in new and innovative ways -- just as having CESA has seemingly always motivated CUFC to stretch in an attempt to offer more and better services. In the end, it's the competition not just between individuals, not just between teams, but between clubs that can help change the landscape of youth soccer in South Carolina so that our kids have more opportunities.
In terms of youth soccer, the major way to hurt kids is by limiting their choice. The best way to help kids is increasing the diversity and levels of service that we offer them. As long as we focus more on increasing services, and less on litigation and attempts to prohibit kids from attending the clubs of their choice, the better off we'll be.