sorry about the confusion...
what im saying basically is, say you use to play soccer at your school for on the guys team, but now you play for the girl's team because they just started one(a girls team that is), and you are the leading scorer on the team like, say maybe six plus goals in a game when you play really bad teams and then your old coach from the guys team comes up to you and says you need to pass more but in reality you are getting break aways and passing like crazy and the girls on your team who have never played before can't control the ball so they don't get as many goals as you but have every chance to.
so my question is Would YOU as a player appreciate being told by your old coach from last year who doesn't even come to the games and only see the stats, telling you, you need to do these things but your REAL coaches see you play and congradulate you? So would you appreciate it or not?
honestly me, i wouldn't especially if they say it to me just to hurt my feelings, you know, and not really to help me improve on my game play.