The berating of players on the field is something I feel truly needs to be addressed. Fandom in several areas of the state has turned away from rooting for the home team and against the away team and toward a contest of which mob can be the biggest group of jerks. Students and parents alike (and this is certainly not all parents by any stretch of the imagination) make it a point to attempt to degrade and humiliate those on the field via taunting, shots at player sexual identity, use of racial and ethnic slurs, use of profanity toward players, and even threats of "meeting after the game." I find this kind of behavior disgusting and inexcusable.
Further, it elevates the pitch of emotion on the field. We all know the game is a highly strung situation; teams often thrive off the combative nature of soccer. It is undoubtedly intensified by the age of the players- I know of no adolescent who isn't, at times, swung by their emotions to commit acts thoughtlessly. To say that players should be disciplined enough not to give in is the correct way to approach any hostile situation, but teen-aged kids are what they are.
I feel that the culture of hostility- that I must punish and degrade my foe at the expense of all sense of dignity- is beneath the dignity of the game in our state.