LadyVolDad,
That is great to hear about TN. That is a quality program, and the girls must be happy there, however, some of the other SEC schools do not have that type of record.
I think a lot depends on the style of the coaches, whether the coaches that recruited the student are still at the school when the student actually starts, and also how well the incoming class is assimilated/welcomed into the team. For example, Ole Miss began the year with a highly recruited class of 14 Freshmen - Called "The Herd" - they were the largest class in school history and one of the largest in SEC Women's soccer history. Even so, they are ending the season with only 4 or 5 of that class remaining (two more girls are deciding now whether they will return in the Fall).
Even though Ole Miss had a reasonably successful year, making it to the NCAA, beating teams like FL,GA, Auburn and Alabama, team morale was very low by the end of the Fall and that increased and carried over to the Spring Season. Of the 9 or 10 players that have left (one was on the SEC All-Freshman team)to my knowledge only 2 are transferring to other schools to continue playing soccer.
A few are transferring to other Colleges/Universities, and some are staying but not playing. As of today it was announced that all 3 coaches are leaving (including the Head Coach Steve Holeman)and going to Georgia, so the incoming Class of 2010/11 will face the same issues..coming into a school where the coaches that recruited them are gone and facing the uncertainty that new coaches always bring. I have heard that KY has lost several players this year also, but do not know have first hand knowledge of that team. Moral of the story - Commit based on what the school has to offer, not on the coaches or the soccer program! Four years go by quickly, and as been previously mentioned, a career-ending injury or other issues make it essential that you are where you need to be academically, with the soccer program being the second consideration.