Hey, I KNOW kids who have been recruited to Pinewood specifically because of their ability to play sports. Their PARENTS have told me as much. It's not against the rules, and it can achieve some other worthy goals, so i don't have a problem with it.
Now, if you want to split hairs, fine. Ivy League and Patriot League universities don't give athletic grants-in-aid. But if you think Tommy Ammaker isn't out their recruiting his tail off for Harvard, you're kidding yourself.
Pinewood recruits. I can deal you cards in spades on kids recruited SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE OF their ability to play basketball, and their education was paid for. Porter-Gaud does the same thing.
As I said before, I have ZERO problem with PRIVATE schools doing this. That is an institutional decision. I also don't get upset when a private school defeats a public school in a sporting event, or point fingers about recruiting. For the most part, the coaches and ADs who schedule the events know the score, and the kids don't care.