The only lesson trying to be made here, Arrgy, is to and only to mydaughtersakeeper. However, I, in fact Arrgy, have held down the same job for over 26 years, I still have all my teeth, and I don't live in a trailor. I guess a comment like "(if you can even hold down a job)" must somehow support the fact that you are much more of an "adult;" very funny though, nice try. I guess that comment was suppose to question my intelligence, too bad. The bigger issue here is that you missed the point of my first post. I defended a group of people who were wrongfully accused of things they didn't do and attempted to correct several assumptions that were just wrong or lies; depending on your point of view. Her statements were not based on any evidence, only her opinion. What she said was just plainly wrong and was without merit. I was there, I heard and witnessed the exchange of words. Were you there? If not, then you really don't know. As I wrote in my first post, we all yell at referees from time to time, including Arrgy, Jimmy2469, me, mydaughtersakeeper, everybody!! Now, if you say you have never yelled at a referee in football, basketball, baseball or any sport; well, we all know what that makes you. The point I'm making is every one yells at referees even referees. If anyone witnessed the match then they could only come to one of two possible conclusions: (1) the referee was not very good; or (2) the referee was partial; which, by the way, either reason would make anyone yell. As I said before, no one is perfect, but mydaughtersakeeper was completely and totally wrong for writing what she did. My original post had nothing to do with you, me or my behavior because that was never an issue. Try to stay on point. So, let's make a new rule that from this point forward, no yelling at referees, at all!!, in any sport, period; not likely to happen though. Please go back and read my original post again and maybe you will be able to discern its message.