"I believe that coaches have to be a member of the coach's association in order to nominate and some schools have a high turnover at the head coaching position that they might not know."
If that's the case, how does Dreher have nominations? Their coach is not on this list...
http://forums.scsoccer.com/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=170340#Post170340-M-
McCall Casey Woodruff
McCall Jeremy Powdersville
McCoord Chris Midland Valley
McDuffie Leslie Newberry
McGee Terrence Woodruff
McGinty Paul Spartanburg
McKinney Flynn Greenville
McKinney Stephen Spring Valley
McLeod Jamie A.C. Flora
Mace Andy Seneca
Mancuso P.J. Wade Hampton (G)
Manning Michael Bluffton
Martinez Kristal Lake City
Masone Samuel Airport
Mauldin Mike Dutch Fork
Maupin Kelly Lexington
Mayes Aaron Camden
Melton Colin Powdersville
Meredith Chad Swansea
Merriman Anna Academic Magnet
Miller Bailey Laurens
Mills John Richland Northeast
Moore Gary Brewer MS
Moore Mary Southside
Morris Keith Airport
Morris Rick St. Joseph's
Mouzon Jason Northwestern
Moxley Rick Seneca
Mueller Blair Myrtle Beach
Murray Heather Cane Bay
Myers Dave South Aiken
Surely he knows how this process works and that this website exists? I hate to single Dreher out, but I don't have all day to do research on more flaws with your logic. You're too quick to dismiss the negligence of others as "they may not know." This is the information age.
Again, my gripe is not with the coaches in the farthest reaches of the state, places that Pat Conroy (RIP) would have written about. It's more about places with "established programs" not fulfilling obligations to their players.
Parents, players, other members of the community want to know how players get selected and why, but in order to answer that question, look within.