Chuck -
The rules are clear, but you have to read the entire rule to understand its purpose and intent.
Your quote is a portion of the Constitution of the SCHSL that addresses unsportsmanlike acts and applies to all sports (not just soccer). The rule begins by stating:
"Unsportsmanlike acts that take place at the site of an interscholastic contest are League matters. The League shall discipline violators of the following items.
1. An athlete who is ejected for using abusive language, flagrantly or maliciously contacting another person, making obscene gestures to opponents or spectators, shall be ineligible for a minimum of the next contest to the maximum of one year depending on the seriousness of the violation."
The rule continues on to ultimately include your quote.
Any act on a high school soccer field that includes "abusive language, flagrantly or maliciously contacting another person, making obscene gestures to opponents or spectators" is a straight or hard red and is considered an ejection under this rule. In fact, the report filed by the referee of the Hilton Head/Summerville match on April 7, 2006 specifically cited violent conduct on the part of both the Hilton Head (striking/elbowing an opposing player) and Summerville (spitting/use of foul language) player as the reason for the ejection. The match referee has summarized the conduct in another thread. Consequently, the SCHSL has notified both schools that their respective player has been suspended for one game.
However, a soft red comes from accumulating two lesser offenses that are not addressed by this rule. Consequently, a soft red is not considered an ejection (just as a fifth personal foul in a basketball game is not considered an ejection) under this rule.