Wow Gogogoal - I didn't do anything to you to deserve such a venomous reply, nor did anyone else for that matter.
Thanks to those who have taken the time to respond and provide good info - I sense mostly frustration.
I agree everyone is a volunteer and certainly appreciate everything that you/we/they all do to develop our players, be sure they have fun and offer them as many opportunities as we can. The intent of my post was to gather information just to understand the soccer community's perception of SCYSA. I have no doubt that at one time SCYSA did their jobs not for self satisfaction but purely for their love of the game and the kids that play it. I just feel that somewhere they have lost sight of this. I was privy to a conversation between a couple of people and a board member - what they were asking was not something that could be done - and they conceded, however, they were blasted and called foolish for even bringing the subject up. The response was something to the effect of, "I've been doing this way too long to fall for that garbage"....I'm sorry, but this was very disrepectful and nasty and should not be tolerated from a board member. The coach is a good guy and has his kids best interests at heart - the coach will no longer try to make suggestions or try to promote change in the state - why? Because he was made to feel unwelcome and basically called an idiot. Why would he waste his time? This is why things remain the way they are.
I don't pretend to think that some personalities don't mesh, however, when you have a prominent position in a very visable organization, it is your job to remain professional and treat everyone with respect. There are people I come into contact with in my job that I don't care for, however, they would never know it because we all have a job to do and I treat them all with the utmost respect.
I am going to go do some reading - and educate myself on SCYSA's bylaws etc. One thing I do well is my homework
This is been very eye opening,
Soccermom (no relation to any of the folks here as go go goal insinuated).