kdlsc: I think women's suffering should be ended as well.
More seriously, when this subject was raised on this message board some number of months ago, I did some research and was amazed that almost all college football programs lost money. Clemson and USC are obvious exceptions to that and are able to fund more generously their athletic programs for both men and women.
It also should be noted that the proposal to the NCAA to add soccer scholarships was rejected by its members -- I asked someone at the NCAA about this and they said that it was primarily the smaller schools that rejected it -- Division IA schools like Clemson and USC were for it.