always right, you are not right on this occasion but good try, i'll save living through others for the parents, i have not lost my mind, i'm definitely not too young or little, so i really don't fit your mold, all i am trying to say is i think this state has a long way to go when it comes to determining success. we cannot compete with other great soccer states when we keep banking on moral victories. however, i do believe that this state is moving in the right direction and that many teams in this state are hiring better coaches to apply a winning mentality, which is completely necessary to succeed.