I don't particularly care what your player does. Just be prepared to suffer the consequences any coach lays out there. If it's excused, so be it. If it's not, then that's a lesson you and the player need to learn. The team suffered in the absence, she should attempt to make it up to the TEAM. Compassion for teammates and the importance of being a TEAM are qualities that many families lack to teach their athletes.

At any rate, you reply proves the point, so thanks: self-righteous attitude, no regards for anything else BUT your daughter. Tale as old as time.