Ok, best of luck to her. I think the point of my last post would be two-fold. 1) IF she decided she wanted to be the best soccer player should could possibly be, then playing in games that are 11-0 may not be the best thing for her. 2) If she chooses to run in the Boston Marathon and happens to miss a school cross-country meet, I would think it would be ridiculous for her school coach to punish her for it.