"The other thing is that alot (not all) cesa parents whose kids were on the top teams had an arrogance, over confidence or false sense of security that just because their kid plays for cesa on the top team that coaches are foaming out the mouth to come watch them play and recruite them. It does not work that way. I know someone will be mad about me saying that but remember i was one at one time also." quoted from Hardheaded.

Maybe the parents arrogance comes from the top.

Meaning, the Club.

The CESA management crowd, has plenty of it.