2 experiences
DOCs at club 1 controls everything, no parent input except for extra tournaments and even those were picked/pushed on you. He was also young for a DOC and not a strong soccer background.
DOC at club 2 recommends to the team managers, team managers & coaches meet with parents and take team votes. DOC has forgotten more about soccer than all three DOCs at Club 1 combined and is a nationally recognized coach with professional, college, ODP & numerous state championships.
Needless to say we are at Club 2 as Club 1 continues to provide Club 2 and several others around it in business.