I think the best senario would be for the parents of both teams sit down with the coaches and DOC and discuss their concerns and to find out from the DOC what the plans are for these two teams and how do they plan to move forward..
Communications break down when parents talk to parents or a parent talks to a coach..We transmitt things that only concern us and our child and sometimes not the big picture.
Get as many together as possible and put it all on the table or hash it out and see where the club plans to move with these teams..Because here is a reality that some do not see..If these teams were to break apart and some go to this club and some over there and the club is left short on players..If things are not greener on the other side then the chance of coming home to a competitive team are slim to none..Trust me..I know.