Regarding Strange calls...
We once had a player completely wiped out by an opposing defender- no play on the ball, our girl made a move and went to get around her and she was just decked. This happened right in front of our bench and I was flabbergasted to say the least that nothing was called. When I appealed to the ref for an explanation he told me "I know the girl and she did not mean to do it!"
Later on an "inadvertent hand ball" when I uttered the same thing in response to the call on our girl all I got was a stern look and a reprimand to be quiet on the bench.
Oh well.....
tk