I think to begin with boys games are called tighter than girls games..I see more fouls allowed with girls..I hear the statements that the B.E. player touched the ball first so that makes it okay..Let's say after the goal and the game resumed a player passes the ball up field and the player has to reach over waist high to kick the ball..At the same time an opposing player goes to head this ball away..The ball gets kicked down field barely missing the opposing players head..What happens? Foul!! Dangerous play on the high kick..But the player touched the ball first..Does that make it okay?