Chief, well, when you said "My guess each would have thier own opinion for obvious reasons" and since you have made it clear that you feel the play in question is an obvious foul, that kinda led me to believe you were assuming how she felt about it. My bad.
I just think it's interesting, since you're using this particular play as your main example, that we do not know how either of the players (who were actually involved in the collision) feel about it. I don't really care how any of the other players on the field at the time feel about it (at least, not any more so than any of the posters on this thread), I like to know the thoughts of the people "truly involved," which in this case, in my mind, is two people - forward and keeper. Chances are, the keeper feels the same way you do - but I'd like to know that for a fact - one way or the other.
I don't really have a strong feeling one way or the other - just giving my two cents worth...