dawgknows,
I have heard of several different approaches by different girls that have headed to D1 and D2 schools. We prepared a profile sheet that was a summary of our daughters soccer career and kept it updated. We routinely sent it to various colleges but always had it with us at tournaments. Many coaches would come asn ask if we had such an item. We had an entry in soccerincollege.com, we played for a good club team that played the Atlanta and other big market clubs, and we sent emails to coaches letting them know where we were playing. We went to tournaments where recruiting was common. It paid off. Several of our girls did the same and many went to play college soccer. Of course you should also go to the camps where your preferred schools are so their coaches can see you one on one. Just one approach.