I have been on both ends of the side with scoring alot on a team and being scored on alot as a coach and a player but scoring 20 goals still does not make it right..no matter what the other team does to your girls or the fans; that is up to the refs and administartion to handle if players are out of hand and fans too.
there are so many things you can do to control a game and not score 20 goals...i think this looks tacky from a coach's perspective and does not make anyone feel good about the win or the loss...IMO
but if you feel okay with scoring that many than that is your perogative...