First of all, indications are that the CESA coach in question WAS at the award ceremony. Whether he chooses to have a player from his team make the presentation or do it himself, seems irrelevant. What is the big deal? Did he make a derogatory comment about Columbia United? Did the CESA players show disrespect to the state champions from Columbia United?

I think where we differ is that I just don't think it makes good sense for the leadership within an organization to enter into unfounded accusations. Celebrate your club's victory if you wish, because the players certainly earned it.

"Outing" you, as you say, is meaningless other than the fact that many families do pay attention to the manner in which their club leadership or potential club leaders express themselves.