Chase, you make valid points but speaking from a perspective of having lived the experience of reinforcing what coaches have taught my son over the years (as most other parents I know have also done) . . . I have to say the time we spend together as father and son is more valuable than any costs associated with the game.
He and his teammates over the years have embraced and enjoyed the experiences of high level competition, travel and the comradery as a major part of their youth. Events near and far have been attended by friends, associates and relatives. The game has been one of the joys of our immediate and extended family over the years.
I'm sure you'll agree from competing as you did, such experiences are rare in life and you have to work hard to be a part of them. In our view, that means you make choices. Choices more often than not have a price tag one way or the other.
We're going into our final year and there are no regrets. We are blessed to have been associated with the people whom we have met along the way.