no, i ask the questions because i don't understand what you're saying...seriously.

again, what is the 20k referring to?

i'll just skip the coaching comments - it's being covered elsewhere.

poor leadership; who are you talking about - coaches who decide to travel 500 miles, or parents who decide to travel that distance? i'm just not sure what point you're trying to make.

not trying to be difficult (like i usually am) - i'm really just trying to understand where you're coming from and what you're trying to say.