I also know of several very good HS players that went on to college only to find that the HS they attended placed more emphasis on soccer than their chosen college and they then transferred out to Carolina or Clemson. Lots of times, players realize they only have 2-4 more years of playing that counts left and opt to "retire" early from the game and pursue more life-meaning opportunities. It's just part of the landscape. Particularly in non-D1 settings.