If that breaks someone's heart, they really need to get some more hobbies, lol. High school versus club is not a right or wrong argument. There are different reasons to enjoy either or both and it's an entirely subjective decision that can only be made by each individual player in their own individual situation. A bunch of grown adults arguing over which one is better is really quite asinine because it's a subjective opinion based on experiences.
I loved club ball. I also loved playing varsity soccer. I had a lot of individual experiences with each that formed my opinions of them that have no impact on anyone else trying to make a similar decision, much in the same way people might compare two different restaurants.