Refs not knowing how to control dangerous play...

they are kids, and will take it to the edge from time to time...

Our team will take it as far as the other team makes them (not allowing balls to be won by force, or violance)... so if the ref does not stop it early, it gets worse and worse and worse... If called tight they will play that way, and prefer it. If you want a fight, and the ref allows it, gloves off baby.