Bumping this up; totally agree with all the points here, and I�ll add/modify a couple: Play ODP. I�ll be the first to admit that not all the best players in the state play, but it�s an opportunity to receive excellent coaching, play with other good players and get noticed. My son�s HS teams were not exceptional. His club (CESA) and ODP experience, in my opinion, got him noticed, and he�s playing Division I soccer. If your son or daughter WANTS to play in college, there are teams & coaches that want them.