That's it, keep on bashing the refs!
The referees are hired to enforce the laws of the game AS WRITTEN, not the way the coaches and parents want them to be selectively enforced. If you want the games called differently, work to get the rules changed.
This whole dialog about the coaches evaluating the refs is a crock. What qualifications do most coaches have to assess the referees? Why aren't the coaches required to demonstrate their knowledge of the game just like the referees are? Most coaches demonstrate their LACK of knowledge of the rules every time they complain about a call. If you really care about improving the officiating, spend the money to implement the three person system, and utilize a trained, unbiased assessment program similar to USSF. Now, how do you get enough referees to go to a three person system? Here's a suggestion- How about the coaches show some respect and patience for the majority of good referees who are doing their best to provide a safe, fair environment for today's youth to participate in the sport. We have absolutely no interest in the outcome of the game, other than trying to keep it as safe and fair as possible. Did you ever think we may be decent human beings that really don't deserve the abuse we get from coaches, parents, and eventually from the players who are following those two role models?
Keep abusing the referees, and the good ones will continue to burn out and quit, and you will continue to have a shortage of good, experienced referees. If you really care about the quality of 'your' sport, why don't you take a closer look at just how poorly you treat one imortant aspect of it.
