R1C: Respectfully, I was confused by this portion of your post as well "I also hope some of those players needing discipline develop character if they plan on coming back next year."
Again, very respectfully, if you're talking about MW [the only player from Aiken I've seen mentioned on this board in this context], I've seen her play in RIIIPL, SYL, and against some colleges -- I don't think she'd be as good a player as she is without a lot of character and discipline. Just my opinion.