R1C... Excuse me for not understanding that there are certain guidelines for posting. Capitalizing EMPHASIZES what someone is trying to get across. I thought you might understand that ( you being a teacher). NO EVILNESS INTENDED. All these notations doesn't mean we are talking of one certain player. I believe it started out about SA. What I am trying to say is that as parents and coaches, we sometimes do not live up to what is expected of us. Are we sending the right messages? There were a few well deserving girls left off certain teams because someone DID fail at their job. All this comes from what was communicated to them and their teams. When someone does well even if they are not on your own team , do they go unrecognized? Kudos for every young lady that stepped on the soccer field this year.