So when was the last time you saw a parent from a HS baseball game or Legion game thrown out for yelling "come on blue?" Does not happen. When was the last time you heard a HS basketball official yell back at the fans(and HS basketball gets it the worst)? You don't.
As a sport we are hampering ourselves by letting the thin skinned refs put us in bad situations time and time again.
Coaches get ripped on this board every day as do players and parents(esp ones who are BOD members) why should we lay off the refs?