>>[Fit For The Gods] Irmo, denied players playing a tournament with club team. Before Playoffs began.<<
Several questions. First, were you going to miss a game, a practice, or nothing? If nothing, I'm not sure why a high school coach would care. If a practice or a game, then what were the penalties for missing? Please -- give us a little more context for what the real problem was.
When you say "selfish" you need to understand that this is a case in which it's you (and whoever else was on the team that wanted to play in a club-related event) versus the remainder of the high school team, with the coach representing the team. The coach has to weigh the interest of the high school team first -- that's her/his job. Of course, the coach also has to weigh the interest of the individual player as well.