Coach Roseberry,
Thanks for the response. I see that you made the right decision for the right reasons. This is why I'm against automatic promotion / relegation. I'd rather the team decide where to play, as long as they do it for the good of the players, and not the glory of the team, club or coach. I'll always question it if one team "dominates" in classic, but it sure sounds like you have a good handle on this.
I don't think I've ever seen the ASA X-treme play, but I have reffed other ASA teams. They always seemed like a classy organization. Well done to you and your ladies.