Sweet,

I want to develop my daughter into a decent D-3 soccer player, or....I want my daughter to be a decent high school player, have fun, get good grades and then go to USC or Clemson and play intramurals.

What should her club soccer path be? ODP, R3PL, Super Y?...how much do I need? Where can I cut corners and save?

Kids play sports because they find it fun. Eliminate the fun and soon you eliminate the kid.