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what was shameful about it? that it was going on or not enough of it was coming your way!!!!


That's pretty personal - but no blood, no foul.

This is from the Administrative Handbook.

4. It is unethical for a player to be recruited or enticed from the Olympic Development Program (ODP) setting, either by
his/her ODP coach or any other coaches or parent during the seasonal year.

I suppose that reasonable minds could differ on whether it is appropriate for a club to invite the State ODP teams to participate in scrimmages with their club teams and then use the occasion to recruit ODP players. By "suppose" I mean "metaphysically possible." For me, it's clearly inappropriate.