>>[HappyDaddy] I witnessed the recruiting that went on at the ODP/CESA event and it was shameful.<<

>>[happyfeet] [...] if you do not want me to respond to your post then next time you say someone or group is being shameful explain what they were doing in detail.<<

I think the miscommunication here is what the word "detail" means. I believe that "happyfeet" is referring to the details associated with the event that you claim that you witnessed -- names, dates, etc. I don't think he wanted the details of the syntax of a rule that in your opinion may have been violated or even your opinion concerning metaphysics; instead, I think he was looking for a few facts upon which to hang the whole picture, as it were.

I realize that we live in a cynical world; but someone cloaked in anonymity making a vague accusation against his child's rival club who was just beaten in the state championships might invite skepticism concerning both motive and factual basis from the most wide-eyed believers among us. I say this not as a personal attack -- your child's team is superb -- but as a way to share with you the reason that there might be a gulf between your belief system and the belief system of others.

Perhaps you could just post the text to the complaint that you made to the SCYSA after witnessing this "shameful" event.

What did the SCYSA do after you submitted your complaint?