if commuting to greenville once a week keeps my little johnny starting every game like he used to until he lost his spot because some other rotten kid was willing to work a little harder than him and I dont want to hurt his feelings by telling him that maybe he needs to in turn work a little harder to get that starting spot back, and so we will now drive two hours to practice instead of two minutes because I want to shelter my little johnny from the real world until he turns 25 and has to fend for himself and then realize that things dont always go his way and sometimes you just have to work a little harder and sometimes there are going to be people who are better than you at things and sometimes you just cant move to a different place every time things dont go your way and sometimes daddy wont always be there to make sure nobody hurts my feelings because then i would be a victim and there are not enough victims in this world, then absolutely at $4/gallon.

can everyone do that, no. but maybe thats a good thing?